asconian's blog

There are moments in life when everything seems to fall apart — when fortune’s wheel turns the wrong way, and you start wondering whether it’s karma, fate, or just one of those storms that life throws at us.

Some years ago, I was there. I was heavier, over thirty kilos more than I am today. I was tired, lost, and stuck in a place where even getting up in the morning felt like a battle I didn’t want to fight.

Then I stumbled upon MeetFighters. At first, it looked like just another website — a place to find opponents and share a common passion for wrestling. But I soon realized it was something much more profound.

Over time, this community became a part of my recovery. Not just physical recovery — emotional, mental, human recovery. It helped me reconnect with myself, with my energy, and with others. Through this page, I have found not only matches, but friendships — real, lasting, and meaningful connections.

All my opponents have become, and remain, my friends. Every single one. I’m an easygoing person, open and genuine, and I’ve been blessed to meet incredible men from all over the world. Many of them I’ve never even wrestled with in person, yet we’ve shared something equally powerful: connection.

Because for me, MeetFighters is not just about fighting. It’s about meeting. It’s not only about setting up matches, or chasing new partners, or even exploring the sensual thrill of physical challenge. It’s about the encounter itself — about conversation, laughter, mutual respect, and the spark of friendship that can cross oceans.

It’s about those long, honest chats late at night.

It’s about sharing ideas, encouragement, and the small details of everyday life.

It’s about filling those quiet hours of boredom with genuine human contact.

It’s about brotherhood, camaraderie, and connection.

Yes, I’ve met arrogance and rudeness here and there — but much less than in life outside. Don’t insist in choosing the wrong guys. They don’t deserve you. What I’ve truly found, and what I choose to focus on, is kindness, warmth, and strength.

So I just want to say thank you.

To the creator of this site. To the team who keeps it alive. And to every single person I’ve talked to, fought with, laughed with, or simply exchanged a few kind words. You’ve helped me rebuild more than my body — you’ve helped me rebuild my spirit.

Here’s to more stories, more matches, and more friendships that make this community what it truly is — not just a wrestling site, but a living, breathing network of human connection.

And now I’m curious:

How has your experience on this page been?

What has it brought into your life?