Into give and take, pro style, can be squashing heel if you like. But like bare chested wrestling. Not so much into competitive as I am both men having fun.

New policy as of Feb. 2024- If we agree on a place and time to meet, you MUST provide me with a good contact phone number for you. If you refuse to do so, I will assume that you are a flake and will not agree to meet.

It has come to my attention that some might consider my profile to be too intimidating. If you look at my recommendations, you will find that I am a benevolent heel. I will wait here while some of you switch to dictionary.com to find out what that word means :)

Back now? Ok, while I do enjoy being a heel, I am safe and sane and want it to be fun for both. I am fine with some give and take as well.

I realize that I am not most men's "cup of tea". I'm big (ok fat), mature (ok old), visually challenging, (ok kind of ugly), financially challenged (ok mostly poor or broke). If that doesn't dissuade you, then read on.

A wise man said this to me when I started pursuing this interest, "You need to be willing to travel to others, because most men aren't going to be willing to travel to you!"

That has certainly proved true in my case, and I have tried to make efforts to travel to meet others. I have also tried to combine trips to meet more than one person when I do travel. That has proved to be a problem! Yes, I'm talking to YOU, Indiana, Illinois, Pennsylvania, West Virginia, and the state that's beneath us, O–O. I now am adding Ontario to that list where I can't even arrange one match.

So, if you do get the chance, be willing to reach out and plan to meet others that you can mesh with.

Life is short, eat dessert and wrestle first!