*I am in massage school till August 2026 and unless it's winter or spring break I'm probably not able to meet, at least for now. I've already had to turn down a couple people I was really excited about because I just don't have the time or energy right now. Please don't take it personally if I say no.*

I've returned to the mats after 2 years due to a knee injury so I'm rusty (and my endurance sucks for now) but evidence shows I'm still a BJJ bluebelt. Most of my rolls are competitive but I do enjoy dominating and I do love being dominated by someone with decent technique. I love wrestling as a sport, sexy wrestling only happens if we're not at all competitive. My style is submission (click the website button to go to my youtube channel) but I want to learn folk/freestyle, kusti, turkish, etc. While I have some pro influences from when I first started out I don't enjoy staged or cyber.

I prefer matches in spandex because I have a fetish. Singlets, speedos, sungas, tights, compression shorts etc. I do have several gis and I’m happy to roll in them but that has less gay appeal for me.

I’m also a huge fan of constriction whether it be bearhugs, bodyscissors or chokes (but do read my blog on choking risks). My preference is to be tortured in squeezy holds but I use them all the time and love to top for squeezeplay scenes. Either way I’m pretty intense. In my last scene I got my sub to panic and complain that he couldn’t breath, I giggled and said, “that’s the point”. Someday, as my endurance comes back, I hope to ko someone with my bodyscissors. Most of the time I just want to see your hand hovering over my leg on the verge of tapping but holding out. With scissors I often just loosen a little then slowly ramp up again. Do as to others as you want them to do to you, right?

I don’t usually involve sex in my rolls, again, we have to adjust how we’re rolling for me to even be turned on. I’m open to erotic, groping, rubbing, ball sniffing, etc, hell if I’m attracted to someone and they have the right ball sweat smell I love when they use them, in spandex, for breath control. If you want erotic, let me know but don’t be upset if I’m not into you that way.

HIV and STI neg but not on PREP (my body doesn’t tolerate it) so I have to be careful. Married and open, husband rarely joins.

*Looking for demonstration partners for my wrestling channel.

The mat room is temporarily trashed till fall so I will not be able to host for a while but I do have travel mats to fit any space.