WrestlerVic's blog

We've all have wanted to meet and wrestle people who don't feel the same way. And the #1 rule is, that's okay. It's absolutely okay. I mean, wrestling is basically wrapping 80% of your body around another human being. People have likes and dislikes, and they must be respected.

I get rejected A LOT. Even though the unanimous consensus among people who have met me agree that I have the strongest squeezing legs. But, of course, that can't be true. My mouth gaps open wide when I see guys with big legs. How do they shower knowing that they have anaconda thighs aching to constrict? Get them around me, dammit!

I also get messaged by guys that don't turn me on in their approach.  Some use fake old photos, or I am just not interested. That's hard to respond to. It's the hardest thing because you don't want to hurt someone's feelings. But we all have to accept that when people don't show that they want to engage with you (i.e. limited responses), they may not be interested. And that's perfectly okay. Don't pressure them with repeated messages.

Let  me stop here and tell you I once met a guy named Patrick who shared a mediocre photo of himself in a Members-Only jacket. I agreed to the match and we met the next day. This young man was STUNNING. We connected and had a great time. So, like Forest Gump, you never know what you're going to get.

The key is honesty and communication. I often look at conversations I once started that resulted in "Thanks, man" or whatever. You learn to recognize the cues of disinterest and move on.

But I'm not going to lie. There are a few men that I will eventually win over. You know who you are. And I will give them the time of their lives.

Me suffering in a thick squeeeze.