Crushnthud's blog

While chatting with a friend on an ENM app I was asked if I had seen this?... I had not... It's a little fluffy but interesting all the same.

So I came across this by accident. It's actually on youtube although it is a little dated this match clip is perfect for what I envision.

It's competitive, its got struggle, some low power body striking. Some skill, lots of grappling and crushing power. The attire is great and man what a great fight.
I tried to find some more of it and other than it is likely a BGEast video I can't find more on it.
So as it is right there is my ideal. Maybe with some low power elbows and knees thrown in, and the odd lift you up in a bear hug and slam you down a bit. However it is awesome for the power and struggle it displays. Almost like a slow motion mma fight. You get close to feeling the fight, but without being all smashed up the next day (you should be sore and stiff though!).
I like mma gloves too but this is awesome as it is. Safety first, and I like for each of us to coach each other up and down in power and intensity as the match progresses.

Now for limits, as you can see on my profile. I can go without the shorts and am open to some handwork, and frot if the chemistry is right. For the record I'm NANONK (No anal, no oral, no kissing). Also I can't be convinced or negotiated into more, and I'm not big into stakes.
I am particularly into the competition and struggle. I realize the original video likely goes further than my own limits, but this clip for its purpose is perfect. As I've been asked about this before, yes I can 'just fight and leave'. If you need more, you've seen my limits they're absolute.

Anyway this fight is absolutely great both from the spectacle of watching it, to imagining being in it. This is what I mean when I ask what are your ideal style and rules. Well this is mine!

So my wife and I have gone out to a major Adult club in Toronto this past few weeks and a Non-Monogamy munch in Southern Ontario as well. We're planning to go to more.
I have to say it was a strange and new experience just telling people you meet that you have a "Catfight, and women's wrestling fetish". Also that you're into Manfight, and wrestling with rules. It's quite the experience having a face to face discussion with people and talking about "Agonophilia" and discovering that you're not even the most extreme oddity in the room. Almost unremarkable by many people's opinion.

I do have to say that some of the other things we've learned is that it is tough to try to date other couples. Primarily it is tough to get everyone in the couples to find the other partner attractive. My wife has also discovered she's found beard's to largely be a turnoff...
It's not as big of an issue for my wife and I as we've agreed to solo play in our ENM.

Anyway, if anyone else is in the circumstance where their partner has zero interest in your wrestling hobby. Maybe hit me up, post fight maybe we can all go for dinner and our partners can talk about how ridiculous our interest in this is!

It is definitely a strange feeling to openly discuss your Agonophilia kink to people in an open room. A quite freeing one though.

Just to be clear I do go on just plain vanilla dates with women not involving any wrestling, or catfights. As part of my liberties in our ENM.

It's a great time to be alive!